How to Raise Godly Children? [Q&A end] - Zac Poonen (தேவ பக்தியுள்ள பிள்ளைகளை வளர்ப்பது எப்படி?)
Dates : 14th,15th and 16th January 2017 (Saturday, Sunday & Monday) Theme: Growing in Heavenly wisdom
Summary
The central message is that raising godly children is the responsibility of the parents, primarily the father, who must diligently teach them God's Word and ways from childhood. The speaker emphasizes that this instruction must happen at home, not solely in Sunday school, and provides practical advice for parents to integrate spiritual teaching into daily family life, such as during dinner. He stresses the importance of fathers taking this leadership role seriously.
Outline
The message in plain words, in the order it unfolds. Select a time to jump the video to that moment.
The importance of raising godly childrenThe speaker introduces the topic of bringing up godly children and references Malachi to show that how we train children in their youth determines their faithfulness in old age.
Don't leave spiritual training to the churchThe speaker emphasizes that parents must not leave the upbringing of children to Sunday School, as true instruction in God's word and ways happens at home.
A call for fathers to lead in spiritual instructionFathers are urged to take their responsibility seriously and not leave the spiritual discipline of children solely to mothers, using the example of biblical traditions like the Passover to teach.
How to respond to rebellious childrenWhen children or teenagers rebel, parents should show them love and teach them the fear of God without being overly controlling. Parents must also join together in prayer for their children.
Guidelines for using physical disciplineThe rod should be a last resort used only for serious disobedience, and parents should avoid humiliating children by punishing them in front of others.
Prioritizing obedience over religious ritualsThe most important thing to teach children is obedience to God's word rather than just the ritual of reading the Bible or family prayer. True godliness is demonstrated by living according to the Word in daily actions.
Approaching relationships in a Godly wayWhen pursuing romantic interests, one should follow proper channels through elders to avoid the confusion and ruin common in the world.
Evaluating secular activities like yogaParents should discern which school activities are appropriate, avoiding those that involve elements of worship to other gods, such as the sun.
Prioritizing time with children over financial gainWhile women may work out of necessity, the speaker suggests that avoiding unnecessary work allows mothers to be present for their children's spiritual upbringing.
Avoiding favoritism and maintaining parental unityParents should not show favoritism through special treatment, which can cause jealousy, and must present a united front when making decisions for their children.
The importance of early salvation and balanced educationParents should introduce children to Jesus as a Savior as early as possible and encourage them to pursue an education that matches their intelligence and family means without forcing specific professions.
Protecting children and seeking God's wisdomParents should support discouraged spouses, monitor their children's influences at school, and ask God for the wisdom needed to raise godly children.
